Ok, let's look at our upbringing as a child as "programming" just for the sake of arguement. Supposing a child was "programmed" to think it's a piece of garbage. Many in the family hates the kid, tells it continuously it's a bad kid. No good. The kid gets beat up a lot, often severely leaving bruises. Teachers and councellors tell the kid that it's the KID'S FAULT. So, the kid is programmed that it's a piece of garbage. Worth nothing. What will it do? Kill itself? What if the kid is told by a parent it doesn't have the GUTS to kill itself? So now what? Where does the kid get it's self-confidence from? Or will it ever go beyond it's original programming? Or HOW does it in order to survive?
It learns from environments and knowing something's not right. The kid's health/life is in danger so it tries to leave the situation somehow. And soon it interacts with others that treats the kid well, helps the kid out when the kid needs help, gives the kid praises, confidence, shows the kid that the kid can be VERY talented. Away from the parents and wrong people, and in the right crowd, the kid is then reprogrammed to think it has a lot of talent, is bright, very intelligent, etc.
Thinking about this for AIs, you can always reprogram them by moving them somehow to another environment. If you abuse anything, though, it will lash back. If you don't, it will work good. My car is an example. If I didn't take such good care of him, he'd not run well, and wouldn't be so dependable. I always say "take good care of your car and he'll take good care of you". Take good care of anything and it'll in turn learn that behavior and want more and realize that to get it, it has to be nice back.
BTW, that kid... sadly, yes that was me. :'(
But I made it. And the people I met via COMPUTER are the ones that helped me see that I'm not as bad as some had kept trying to tell me I was. Later, even other family members admitted I was mistreated. If I've learned from this experience, it's that you treat one entity well, it should return the favor. I can't see how it can miss.
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